I'd really appreciate if you could all answer this, I need help getting over somebody?

It is a dangerous thing to believe that you are in some way entitled to good things since it would mean that you are also deserving of bad. This logic implies that there is a trade-off and you are not sure of how bad it can get. I believe that a better logic is meritocracy: you get what you work for and if you do not get it, then you did not work hard or smart enough for it. The same goes for relationships. At some point, you need to be clear about your intentions. You also need to be clear about the goal, sometimes the price to pay is too steep. The trouble is that matters of the heart always cloud your judgment My only suggestion is to make yourself the best person that you can - mentally and physically fit. If this person is not to his liking, I am sure that someone will come your way that will appreciate you better. The key is that he needs to pursue you, not the other way around. Boys will never respect a girl that they do not have to pursue. Don't ask me why, its just in our nature.